changing words

hi everyone. how are you all ?
well topic to discuss today is changing words.
"Changing words ", well what does that means.  this means the change in our talks with our friend from our age to age.

two days before , i was talking to my best friend on phone. we talked almost for an hour and all we talked was about our career , companies , their profit , their repo and all such stinking stuff. and the worst part is , we laughed on the topics like a company gained less than the other. wow and suddenly a thought came in my mind that what are we talking. going back just 8 months , is these the same topic we talked on back then. where are all those talks of tafribaaji , friends , girls and flirting. Asking my friends about their latest crush and last break up.
Asking them to give us tips to impress girls and so on and so on and so on ..

thinking all these all i could say is .... " Abey yaar lagta hai ki hum bade ho gaye hai" . we are talking like just all those other grown ups". going back in the time . Time from which i could remember my talks with friend , is my first class. getting time with my friends we used to discuss how scary a movie is . trying to show yourself the closest friend of someone. and boasting about yourself and your father . ha ha ha .. those innocent talks ..

then we grew up a little more and started watching action movies , mostly of those chinese stuff of punching and kicking bags. and discussing with friends . trying to copy them in front of friends to gain appreciation . talking about superheroes and other action cartoon series. and copying their voices. talking about cricket and saying see my bowling action matches with some specific player .

then again we grew up a little more . and then sticking to the action movies only but now with some serious gun and blood stuff . our talks diverged from those flexible bodies of chinese actors to those stiff muscular bodies of hollywood actors. talking about being captain of our cricket team and arguing on who plays better and forcing all the friends to indulge themselves into the argument by asking them to decide. then criticizing all those strict teacher who punished us in the class and to be clearer , abusing them and then abusing friend for laughing . talking about the video game cassettes and CDs. and discussing how to clear those difficult stage which could not be easily cleared. means talking all those tension free talks.

then we grew up again ... and little young too... with all the previous talks , a new topic added to our talks ." GALS". we talked about how that girl is , and how some guys are trying to tame her and laughing at how they are so unsuccessful in that . keeping an eye on our looks and then asking friends " yaar chal market chalte hai . festive season hai . Samjha kar". ha ha .

then we grew up a little more. and hard time of studies came into the way .. i still remember the few line of my dad ;;" beta abhi mehnat kar lo fir to life me mauj hi mauj hai". and these lines are persistent from that time till today and i still am confused ki "life me mauj hi mauj " era kab aayega. well whatsoever . main thing was with all the other lovely talks one new topic was added ," yaar how much syllabus have you completed". " yaar i have completed only two units" and so on .  and ya one more thing was added ... planning how to tease a teacher , of course in a legal way. well i remember i and my friend frame most irritating syllabus based question to irritate the teacher to such a level that they started ignoring our queries. wow ,,.. so all thw luciferian talks and deeds were there in the mind but no such a tension.

then we again grew up a little and now we were young. and we all know how we "the youths" are. all the enjoyment of life . each and every single words were intended to extract fun. to pull legs of mates remains the main motto of all the talks. and trying to find all the jokes of world is main talks of this age. ( o that lovely college life). some of those super flirt boys are always the apple of eyes of most of the guys. their talks about how they talked to that girl and how they tamed the another one . some other guy who are bitten by love bug have only two talks, how lovely their love is and how a bad time their relation is going from. some other guys are macho type. their talks is centered to all fighting stuff and all the boiling blood talks. some of the other are geek who will tense you by explaining how large the course is and how less time is reamining and then making you realise by their talks that how bad your preparation is. damn on these type of guys .and some are the part of all such talks but atleast all were interesting.

then we grew up to the age where we are just discussing the jobs . our boss. and our profile. our salary and the plans for the increasing it.
looking it how our words change from time to time , it is such a irony that we call this life " one life" when it is divided in so many sub lives.

death of rising sun.

nothing is permanent in this world. everything which is here might not be here tomorrow. everything will last someday or other. which you have today might not be with you tomorrow.
i was thinking all these while sitting idly and watching the sun set. it was going . we all know that the sun will rise again on next morning but thinking on the different side the risen sun of next morning will again set on next evening. and this chain of rising and setting will continue for years and years. While admiring the beauty of the evening and coloring my thoughts with the redness of the evening sky , a thought came to my mind, WOW the life of sun is just one day. thinking in this way, the sun born in the morning , get optimum at noon and dies in the evening.
loved , hated or whatever  but the sun will continue is " a day life cycle " everyday of every week for every months of every year.  Human life is also same as the sun. Born one day remain at optimum for some period and then start decaying and then ends on day without any regret and leaving the near one in the night darkness of sorrow.
in the morning life starts with a jump. every bit of the nature is active and ready to run type. as the day passes and as our loving rising sun sets its path to its sunset , the life on the earth also take a nap in the lap of tiredness . with the death of rising sun every bit of life get tired and wait for the rebirth of this death sun in the next morning.   

smiling tears

TEARS .. generally whenever this word is heard the first thing that comes to your mind is sadness , sorrow , pity , means all the negative thing . but how about this . ever thought that the tears can also be smiling?

once in a while you get chance to shed your tears in a sorrow but most of the time they come out of your eyes without any reason. illogical but true,cutting onion in the kitchen almost covers 57%of total tears a house wife of India sheds in her whole life. those are not the tears of sorrow . they are the smiling tears. have you ever noticed when someone is shedding rivers from his/her eyes in the kitchen on the name of onion. you will smile on looking at the person, so will he or she. with a smile the person will wipe the tears and say damn to this onion. and smiling tears spreads a smile on two faces.

think of it .. most of you must have seen the movie Taare Zameen par .  the last scene when the kid in that movie(i don't remember his name) won the competition, i remember almost every person in the hall was wetting their cheeks on the scene. i myself somehow controlled my tears. well i dont think ki that scene was some tragedy type. offcourse it was the 'most merry' scene but why were there tears in everyone eyes? again the same conclusion. those were the smiling tears. came out of happiness . the feel of finally the good happened makes these smiling tears come out of our eyes.

when a kid have his first step or first time , comes first the eyes of mothers always get wet. out of happiness the smiling tears comes out and make those moment more precious.

generally girls shed smiling tears on their very first date with the person she loves and when the person surprises her with the most ordinary gift she never expected but she loved that gift the most. out of surprise and happiness the smiling tears comes out of her eyes and with the most lovely smile on her face and the hint of tears in her eyes the moment becomes best for the guy and the girl become most beautiful gal in the world for that guy. these smiling tear can easily turn a attraction into a true love.(specially you guys) just some drop of these salty water can turn your world upside down and next day you may heard saying , i am in love.
and those tears will be smiling over you and would say , everything is due to us.

two best friend meeting after many years , beating each other and laughing at the height of their tummy and finally control their fun to stop those smiling tears coming out of their eyes.

think of a incident with your friends when you laughed so much that you even have to pause to take breath . those smiling tears are always out to make those moments more lovely and when your friends point out  a finger on you and say oye he is overburst .. there are tears in his eyes and over this there are more laughs.

again those tears smiles and say these bonus joy is because of us.
the smiling tears are the toppings on our joy to make this cake of our life more delicious, so enjoy these smiling tears.